Canine Calm: the power of "STAY"

Lulu, Riley, Cali, Duke and Bear (all off leash) posing for a picture at the summit!

We all adore our furry companions, their boundless enthusiasm and joyful greetings. But what happens when that enthusiasm turns into a potential hazard? Imagine fumbling with a broken glass, only to have curious paws investigating the sharp shards. Or picture a delivery driver at your door, and your excited pup makes a dash for freedom. In these moments, a reliable "Stay" command isn't just a trick – it's a lifeline.

Beyond these dramatic scenarios, teaching your dog to "Stay" is a cornerstone of good manners and a fantastic way to build a stronger connection. It fosters self-control, improves communication, and lays the groundwork for more advanced training. Plus, a dog who understands "Stay" is a safer dog, less likely to bolt into traffic or interfere in potentially dangerous situations.

Ready to equip your canine companion with this essential superpower? Our step-by-step guide will walk you through the process, making training manageable and rewarding for both of you.

Step 1: Laying the Foundation – Introducing the Behavior

We'll start simple, focusing on building the core understanding of stillness.

• Get Settled: Ask your dog to sit or lie down comfortably in front of you.

• Short Bursts of Stillness: In your mind, count to a slow "one, two, three." The instant they remain still for those three seconds, shower them with praise ("Yes", Good pup!") and a tasty treat.

  • Pro Tip: Resist the urge to say "Stay" just yet. We're focusing on the action of not moving first.

• Gradual Increase: Slowly extend the duration of stillness before rewarding. Think of it like building muscle – a little more each time.

  • Example:

    • 3 seconds = treat + praise

    • 5 seconds = treat + praise

    • 10 seconds = treat + praise, followed by a short break to keep things fun!

      
      

Step 2: Adding a Little Wiggle Room (for You!) – Introducing Movement

Now that your dog understands the concept of staying put, we'll gently introduce the idea of you moving while they hold their position.

• Back to Basics: Have your dog sit or lie down and successfully stay for about five seconds, earning that well-deserved reward.

• Subtle Shifts: Here's where it gets a little trickier (for them!). Slowly shift your weight, maybe just your shoulders, as if you're about to take a tiny step back or to the side. If they remain still, reward them immediately!

• If They Break: No worries! Simply reset and try again, perhaps shortening the duration of the initial stay.

• Increasing Distance: Gradually increase the size of your steps – a half step, then a full step, and so on. Remember, reward only when they maintain their position.

• Vary the Pace: Keep your training sessions interesting by alternating between short and slightly longer stays (between 1 and 15 seconds) as you move.

  
  

Step 3: The Silent Command – Introducing the Hand Signal

Visual cues are powerful! Now we'll pair a hand signal with the behavior.

• Show Your Palm: Once your dog is reliably staying with you taking a few steps, introduce your chosen hand signal. A common one is an open palm facing your dog, like a polite "stop" gesture.

• Practice Makes Perfect: Give the hand signal as your dog starts to stay. Reward them for holding their position while you gradually increase the duration and distance, using the hand signal consistently.

• Short and Sweet Repetitions: Aim for 5 to 10 repetitions in a row, followed by a break to keep your dog engaged.

  
  

Step 4: Giving it a Name – Introducing the Verbal Cue "Stay"

The moment we've been waiting for! Now we'll add the verbal command.

• The Power of Two: With your dog in a sit or down position, present the hand signal and clearly say the word "STAY" (just once!).

• Gradual Challenges: As your dog becomes more proficient, start to increase the distance you move away, the length of time they stay, and introduce low-level distractions. Remember to reward generously for success!

  
  

Key training insights: for "Stay" success

• Patience is Your Secret Weapon: If your dog moves, don't get discouraged. Simply take a brief pause and start the step again. Consistency is key!

• Location, Location, Location: Begin your training in a quiet, familiar environment like your kitchen where distractions are minimal. As your dog progresses, gradually introduce training in more stimulating settings.

• Keep it Fun and Focused: Short, positive training sessions (5-10 minutes) are far more effective than long, drawn-out ones. Keep your dog enthusiastic and eager to learn.

• The 3 D's are Your Training Compass: Remember to gradually increase the Duration of the stay, the Distance you move away, and the level of Distractions present.

  
  

Teaching your dog to "Stay" is an investment that pays dividends in safety, communication, and a deeper bond with your beloved companion. By following these steps with patience and consistency, you'll unlock a new level of calm and control, making everyday life with your furry friend even more enjoyable.

Happy training!

Warm wags,

Trisha